Wedding Stuff

Not your average huwelijksreis (honeymoon) – Part 3

The third installment is all about Lake Garda! Wooooo hooooo! What an incredible place! I feel so lucky to be able to have visited this amazing area of Italy and what better time to do it than on your honeymoon!? Idyllic is one word. Beautiful is another. Breathtaking, stunning, glorious… I could go on all day!

The first glimpse we got of Lake Garda was the northern shore at Riva del Garda. From there we had a short drive along the eastern shore to our first stop: Malcesine, or so we thought! The campsite we’d booked was advertised as being in Malcesine, but we soon realised it was also an “area” and we were miles away from the actual town of Malcesine. We were actually closer to the small town of Navene, with comparatively few bars and restaurants. Luckily it had a beautiful marina!

Marina Navene, Lake Garda

Marina Navene, Lake Garda

Fisherman, Navene, Lake Garda

Fisherman, Navene, Lake Garda

After a one night stay at Camping Alpino and a meal at Locanda Navene (which was super-delicious and so authentic the waiter didn’t speak a word of English!) we decided to travel down to Sirmione which had been highly recommend by my boss (he’s a Lake Garda nut and has been 10+ times.) I REALLY don’t want to talk about lack of photos on this part of the trip (if you’ve read the previous posts, you already know!) Sorry!

The drive from Malcesine (or Navene!!) to Sirmione is sooo pretty!! (Tip: Just stay on the SR249 and follow the shape of the lake, no need to take the motorway route that Google Maps gives. Weirdos!)

When we arrived at Camping Tiglio in Sirmione we approached the Vacansoleil reception to book a “luxe Navajo tent” for a few nights. It was cheaper than staying in our own tent (!) so, why not! Unfortunately, the grumpy woman at reception had no interest whatsoever in helping us. Big sighs, rolling her eyes and muttering “we’re very busy” as she scuffed her heels to another tent to get her book. I was so surprised by her rudeness I even commented on it (something I would never usually do!) “Well, if it’s too difficult for you, we can just book online…” (We’d already seen online they had spaces but thought it was “easier” to just turn up!) But then… just then, I realised something. How had she pronounced the word busy again??

So, I pulled out my secret weapon: “Bent u Nederlands? We kunnen het in het Nederlands doen, als u wilt.”

YESSSSSSS! Never in our lives have we seen so much of a turnaround in a matter of seconds. When speaking Dutch, this woman came alive, she loved us, we could do no wrong, we even got to choose which tent we wanted! We ended up staying for 4 nights and she was the friendliest, most lovely host you could wish for. In Dutch!

And in case you’re wondering what a “luxe Navajo tent” is, I’ll put you out of your misery now 😉

Our home for 4 nights

Our home for 4 nights

Yep, in true Dutch stylie… we hired bikes! Without a doubt the easiest way to get around Lake Garda! (Ask at your accommodation / campsite where to rent bikes, there are rental places everywhere.)

View from campsite Tiglio

View from campsite Tiglio

While staying in Sirmone, we wanted to do a boat trip so we rode our bikes to the harbour in Peschiera del Garda which we were told had better connections than Sirmione itself. It was also totally pretty  – well worth a visit in itself!

Peschiera del Garda Harbour

Peschiera del Garda Harbour

And just to prove how popular this area was with the Dutch…

Hollandse Patat

Hollandse Patat

I only took a photo! Promise! Why eat Dutch chips when you can eat Italian food?! 😉

And with the San Marco ready to set sail… off we went!

The San Marco

Boat trip from Peschiera to Garda

Lake Garda Boat Trip

Boat trip, Lake Garda

Boat trip, Lake Garda

Boat trip, Lake Garda

Boat trip, Lake Garda

Boat trip, Lake Garda

Boat trip, Lake Garda

Boat trip, Lake Garda

We hopped off the boat in Garda (town) because the Dutchie’s Mum had been to Lake Garda a few years back (ok, a lot of years back) and that’s where she had stayed.

Garda, Lake Garda

Garda, Lake Garda

Garda, Lake Garda

Garda, Lake Garda

Garda, Lake Garda

Garda, Lake Garda

Garda, Lake Garda

Garda, Lake Garda

Garda, Lake Garda

A gorgeous little town brimming with shops, bars and restaurants. We bought the majority of our souvenirs on this single trip!

If you’re lucky enough to visit Lake Garda, it would be rude not to do a boat trip! It was very reasonably priced, around 16 euros return from Peschiera to Garda. An absolute bargain in my eyes. You get to see so much of the lake this way, perfect for people who don’t have much time!

Or for those who want to spend the majority of their time chilling out…

Sirmione, Lake Garda

Sirmione, Lake Garda

Well, we had to rest, recuperate and relax before our car journey to the Misano World Circuit Marco Simoncelli for the San Marino MotoGP!!

Have you been to Lake Garda? Which places did you visit? Did you speak to the lovely Dutch lady at Camping Tiglio?

Hayley x

Advertisements

Bitterballen Bruid’s Bruiloft – The Official Photographs

Happy Friday! I’m **SO** excited to show you a selection of our professional wedding photographs which arrived this week! I was actually ready to post Part 3 of the honeymoon today, but I figure this is WAY more important. Hope you agree!

Our wedding took place in Hilversum at the Gemeentehuis (town hall) followed by a reception at The Haven van Huizen (haven = harbour) and a meal at Cornelisz Restaurant.

Zuiderkerk, Hilversum

My Mum being pampered…

On the way!

Our wonderful registrar at the Gemeentehuis, Hilversum

Making it official!

My little sister was a witness AND bridesmaid

The Haven van Huizen

You know it had to happen!! BITTERBALLEN BRUID!

Cornelisz, Huizen

Wow! That was way more than I thought! Hope you like! 🙂

Photo credit goes to the amazing Katie at Indigo Images who flew to Holland and back for the day! An absolute star! Massive thanks.

Have a great weekend!

Hayley x

Not your average huwelijksreis (honeymoon) – Part 2

It’s nearly 3 weeks since we got back from our honeymoon and I write this with serious post-wedding / honeymoon blues! BUT: time for Part 2! The Stelvio Pass. Oh My Life.

I would love to be mysterious, to build the suspense and keep you waiting but I just can’t! It’s too exciting! I now see what all the fuss is about on Top Gear,  motorbike forums and whatnot. It’s the best road I’ve ever experienced, a real drivers road and I will never forget it. (Yes, I am getting excited about a ROAD. You’ll see…)

The Dutchie summed it up perfectly… posting this panorama on Facebook with the caption “The drive of a lifetime”. Boy was he right.

Stelvio Pass Panorama

Stelvio Pass Panorama

Unfortunately, this is the only picture you’ll see from the Dutchie… while his photos can be restored, the price tag is ridiculously hefty… so for now at least we’ll have to go without. A massive shame that he has lost hundreds of photos (including the beginning of the honeymoon.) Damn.

The idea of going via the Stelvio Pass (in Italian it’s called the Passo dello Stelvio and in German: Stilfser Joch) came from one of the Dutchie’s work colleagues. He’d recently been on a similar road trip and said it was well worth a detour. Yep. Yep. Yep.

Stelvio Pass 2

Stelvio Pass 11

Stelvio Pass 4

There were tons of insane brave cyclists tackling the pass. At 21.5 km long with 48 hairpins… that’s no mean feat!

photo 179

Stelvio Pass 5

Stelvio Pass 6

The pass is located in the Ortler Alps in Italy between Stilfs (“Stelvio” in Italian) in South Tyrol and Bormio in the province of Sondrio, Lombardy, Italy. It has an impressive elevation of 2,757m (9,045 ft) above sea level!

Stelvio Pass 7

Stelvio Pass 8

Stelvio Pass 8

The views are absolutely breathtaking! We stopped to admire them at pretty much every opportunity we could! There are several parking places for cars, some more hairy (scary) than others! The advantage of cycling is that you can stop wherever you like. Maybe not so insane after all.

Stelvio Pass 9

Just WOW.

… and out the other side! This was taken just after the small town of Bormio, a popular skiing destination in the Alps.

IMG_8995

An amazing start to the trip and highly recommended if you’re going to Northern Italy!

I’ll end with a couple of tips if you’re going to the Stelvio Pass yourself:

  • When driving the pass: don’t be a dingbat! The road is narrow, there are lots of other road users present. On certain hairpins, cars in front of us were blindly taking corners without looking what was coming the opposite way. This just causes a traffic jam as the road isn’t wide enough for two cars. I repeat: don’t be a dingbat!!
  • On that vein… I wouldn’t recommend driving this road with a camper van. Too big, too slow. We didn’t see one truck on the pass. There’s a reason for this 😉
  • There is no need to stay in a hotel on the pass itself. The prices are at least double! We stayed at La Baita which was a 10-15 minute drive from the “beginning” of the Stelvio Pass. More than close enough! (If you do stay here: the food in the restaurant next door is LEKKER!! I had a seasonal mushroom dish and the best pizza I tasted in Italy. Prices are great, too! 10/10.)

Phrasebook

Oh, and if you don’t speak Italian… take a phrasebook or a dictionary!! Few people speak English so if you want to be understood, you’ll need a little help! (You’ll thank me later.)

Part 3: Lake Garda! Have you been?

Hayley x

Not your average huwelijksreis (honeymoon) – Part 1

I was hoping to share the official wedding photographs with you – before the honeymoon pictures – but I’ve only just received the “sneak peek” myself… so in the meantime… let’s crack on with our beautiful huwelijksreis!

My dream honeymoon destination has always been Thailand. The clear water, the blue sky, the perfect beaches… it’s just ideal honeymoon material! However when my friend got married in Bali in October last year, we thought – “heck, we’re going all that way already – let’s go to Thailand as well”. It was everything it was cracked up to be and more… and I would LOVE to go back, but for our honeymoon, we wanted to go somewhere we’ve never been before. (If you’re new to the blog and want to read about our Thailand trip, you can do so here: 10 things to to do on Koh LantaKoh Lipe: Thailand’s secret island?Thailand Packing List.)

So we decided on… ITALY! (There is actually a significant reason for this, but it’s better to explain that in a later post… it will all become clear later – I promise!)

As we wanted to visit several places in Italy, we did the Dutch thing (they love camping and caravaning!) loaded up the car and decided to turn it into a road trip! A mix of hotels and camping, keeping the plan flexible so we could stay in places for longer if we liked them… and move on if we didn’t. But first stop: Basel in Switzerland! We left for our honeymoon on my birthday, so didn’t want to spend the whole day and evening driving. Basel is around a 7 hour drive from home so it seemed like the ideal location for a stopover. We were right.

En route to Basel

En route to Basel

We arrived quite late in the evening, so only had time for a quick shower, change of clothes and then went out for dinner: a cheese fondue! Of course! We’d done a bit of research prior to the trip and found a highly recommended restaurant on Trip Advisor called Elsbethenstubli, serving the “absolute best fondue you’ll ever have” – according to one reviewer. They were right. It was delicious. The best we’ve ever had! Another reviewer thoughtfully added “Remember, it IS Switzerland”… so we weren’t too surprised when the bill came. It was expensive… but hey, it IS Switzerland.

Cheese fondue, Basel, Switzerland

Cheese fondue, Basel, Switzerland

On the way back to the hotel, we stumbled upon a fantastic bar called Zum Kuss. (It means “The Kiss” in German.) Again, it was expensive (10+ euros for a double gin)… but so, soooo worth it. Their gin collection was one of the most impressive we’d ever seen! The second shelf down is ALL gin. I shit you not. AMAZING!! The Dutchie had one with cucumber and pepper. Yum!

Zum Kuss, Basel

Zum Kuss, Basel

And now for some “real” photos, from my “proper” camera!! (The above were phone photos… Sorry!) The next morning, we wanted to get on the road by lunchtime, so we had a couple of hours to explore Basel:

Basel, Switzerland

Basel, Switzerland

Zum Andreasplatz, Basel, Switzerland

Zum Andreasplatz, Basel, Switzerland

Basel, Switzerland

Basel, Switzerland

Basel Town Hall (known locally as Roothuus) is over 500 years old and dominates Marktplatz (market place) in the centre of Basel.

Basel Town Hall

Basel Town Hall, Marktplatz, Basel, Switzerland

Basel Town Hall

Basel Town Hall

Basel Town Hall

Basel Town Hall

Beautiful! You must go there if you visit the city!

On the subject of recommendations… a place to avoid is Restaurant Zum Alten Stockli. It looks great from the outside and has a lovely terrace, but the waitress was unbelievably rude, slow and unfriendly and one of the locals was even worse! A terrible dining experience, we wanted to get out of there as fast as we could!! Later we discovered it’s the #346 worst restaurant (out of 411 restaurants) in Basel!! Lesson learned… ALWAYS check Trip Advisor first!!

I’ll end on a positive note, however, of a cool mural we spotted… plus some street art! (The Dutchie had a better picture of the mural… an amazing panorama… but since his phone ended up drowning in a swimming pool in Italy – the less said about that the better – this will have to do!)

Music mural

Music mural, Basel, Switzerland

Street Art, Basel

Street Art, Basel

Street Art, Basel

Street Art, Basel

Part 2 coming soon: Italy and the Stelvio Pass!! Now I’m off to relax before my first ever Dutch lesson! Nervous? Me…? Eeeeeeeeekkkkkkkk!!

Hayley x

Bitterballen Bruid’s Bruiloft

Wow, that’s a mouthful. As promised… I said I’d share a few snaps of the day! Well actually, days: we were married in a small, intimate ceremony on Friday and then on Saturday we had a huge party with around 130 guests! Suffice to say it was the best weekend of our lives! 😀

Bride mug

The service was beautiful and very personal… we only had 11 guests. Just our closest family. ❤

At the Gemeentehuis

On Saturday I had partymaids, rather than bridesmaids! With orange flowers, of course… Go Holland!

Party maids

It was an emotional day to see friends and family, many of the UK contingent I hadn’t seen since I moved here, so a few tears were shed!

Welcoming a friend to the party

Everyone had an amazing party and we danced the night away until 4am or so!

Sweets

Now it’s time to finally relax after months of planning… we leave on our honeymoon tomorrow! Italy for 2 weeks… Can’t wait!!

Professional photos to follow – the above were taken by family and friends. And of course… I will be sure to blog about our amazing honeymoon too!

Have a good couple of weeks!

Ciao!

Hayley x

Wedding Card Post Box

Today I have mainly been drawing… with a sharpie… on a cardboard box.

When looking for a “wedding card post box” online, I couldn’t find anything I liked. Except for a real English post box… but being in the Netherlands means it’s practically impossible to hire one here and getting one from the UK would be extortionate. Even adding the words “customized” or “alternative” to my Google search didn’t help a bit… I then got results for card boxes with ribbons round them, or diamantes… or badly printed lettering with the bride and groom’s name on them.

Nope. This just wouldn’t do. So I ordered a plain white cardboard post box and decided to decorate it myself…

With a sharpie!

Card post box

1. Take one boring white wedding card post box, purchased online from Amazon for around £10 including delivery (around €12.50) plus 2 black markers. One thick, one thin (around €2 each from local stationery store.)

Wedding card post box

2. The lettering is the most important bit, so I used a pencil and ruler first… just to be sure.

Wedding card post box

3. Once you’re happy… fill in with the marker. (This was the most annoying bit and I ended up having to re-do it twice because all the letters didn’t fit in!!)

Card post box

4. Then… get creative!! I had the idea a couple of weeks ago, so while I was waiting for the box to arrive, I spent some time practicing and using the world wide web for inspiration!!

Wedding card post box

It’s sure as hell not perfect… but it’s personal… and that’s what matters. No one else in the world will have the same post box as me on their wedding day!

Wedding card post box

5. The finished result…

Wedding card post box

Wedding card post box

Wedding card post box

Wedding card post box

Wedding card post box

Wedding card post box

Wedding card post box

Wedding card post box

Hayley x

**Wedding Update**

Considering the title of this blog is Bitterballen Bruid… I haven’t posted much about the wedding… at all! I put this mainly down to the fact that the Dutchie reads every single post (how sweet!) so I don’t want to give away any secrets… and secondly, that we’ve been so busy planning the wedding that I haven’t actually had any time to write about it!!

So just a quick update… it’s exactly 3 weeks from today!! Eeeeeeeek!! Very exciting!! But we still have so much to do… I wouldn’t say I’m stressed, but I would prefer things to be ticked off the list a lot quicker than they currently are!

Wedding bits

I’m very much looking forward to it, obviously (!!!!!) and I promise to post a few pics of the big day before we go off on our honeymoon! (A road trip to Northern Italy! Yippeeeeee!)

Hayley x

Pot of Dreams: Wedding Fund

I’ve had them all: the 80s Natwest piggy banks, shopping funds, holiday money-boxes, rainy-day savings… but now it’s serious. Now we have to save for a wedding – without a doubt – the most expensive day of our life. And… we’re on a budget… but it’s still going to be the most costly day of our lives so far. Not that I’m complaining, AT ALL! I can’t bloody wait. I’m looking forward to spending it on the happiest day of my life! 🙂 🙂 🙂

Pot of Dreams: Wedding Fund

Pot of Dreams: Wedding Fund

First things first, we had to decide how much we could actually afford to save every month.  Times this by the amount of time until the wedding, and hey presto! You have your budget! Of course, this isn’t the way everyone decides their budget, but that’s how we came to ours. And it suits us just fine! The Pot of Dreams is an add-on to the budget: whenever we have loose change (£1 / €1 minimum) or notes (!!) it goes in there. We haven’t quite decided what this will go towards yet – honeymoon spending money, I suspect – but hey, don’t weddings always go over budget anyway? It’ll come in handy whatever happens!

We’re very (very very) lucky in that our parents are helping too – most unexpectedly, I had a phone call from my Mum the day after we went wedding dress shopping.

Her: “I’ve have a talk to your Dad and we’re going to pay for your wedding dress…”

Me: **longest pause ever** with a Cheshire cat grin on my face…

First time I have ever been speechless in my life.

WOW!

Obviously, after an uncomfortable few seconds (which felt like hours), with my brain racing at 100mph, my verbal diarrhoea returned and I continued thanking them for weeks and weeks afterwards!

The Dutchie also brought good news when he told me his Mum had offered to buy his suit! Amazing! So, we’re suited and booted! Now time to get saving for the rest! Wish me luck 😉

Hayley x